This is about an experience, an aha moment I had. After listening to a coach’s story. He had an experience at the age of 6, and this impacted his whole life in so many areas. I realized a similar thing had happened to me.
My memory, was triggered talking to a friend. I remembered an incident in my own life, which I realized had impacted most of my life.
I am 10 years old, living in the country. 4 of us go to ballet lessons, and our mothers take turns to drive us into Rotoura. We have just finished ballet lessons, and feeling good, excited, and about to have a treat. Lorraine is 2 or 3 years older than me, turns around and says something to me, about me having no money. I can’t recall the words, however, the feelings I am experiencing, are shock, shame, guilt, unworthy, not good enough, failure, humiliation, and my self-esteem and confidence is knocked. I stop going to ballet lessons.
I am average at school, don’t excel in sports, and I start my first job in an accountant’s office. The office manager, her way of teaching suddenly makes sense, I am relating it to life. My journey into office and accounts as career has started, which leads me into hospitality and real estate. I am successful in all my jobs, however, still this dissatisfaction that something is missing.
I am introduce to network marketing, this leads into affiliate marketing, this is the way to financial freedom, and multiple streams of income, I am told. At the same time, I am introduced to coaching, I love it, love seeing the transformation in people.
Then, I hit rock bottom, I am in debt, I walk away from my home I love, friends and family. I have a home with my niece, however I am unhappy, depressed, broken.
I know to create my life, I have to find my joy and happiness. Sitting on the beach playing with the sand. I suddenly 
realize that each grain is one of my problems. I give thanks, I am feeling lighter, a spark of joy is there, my perspective changes. I to return to New Zealand.
I am applying for jobs, it’s fun, I am having a whole different perspective about how I am applying for jobs. I am applying before I return thinking by the time I get home; the phone calls will start. Suddenly the phone is ringing, people are wanting me to attend interviews, before I get home. I am blown away.
I get a job doing demo work, and I uplift my real estate license and start my career as a salesperson with great results.
My aha moment, the feelings I experienced as a 10 year old had impacted throughout my life. They created the blocks, the self-sabotaging, as I didn’t feel worthy or good enough. I felt embarrassed, shame, guilt, and a failure when I had to face friends and tell them I had hit rock bottom.
Searching for my happiness and joy, was the key that turns my life around. Plus, embracing I am infinite being, (we all are), and I am worthy, good enough. I am looking at life with excitement, joy, happiness. I understand that life is an adventure and I am creating it.
I have written my first book, which will be out in a couple of months. Plus, I am coaching again.
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